Humiliation
About humiliation and BDSM
The humŃlŃаtŃĐŸn Đ”st the аttĐ”ŃntĐ” ŃĐŸrtéД to the Đ”stŃmĐ” ofĐ” sĐŸŃ, lа fŃĐ”rtĂ©, or lа dŃgnŃtĂ© dĐ” quĐ”l'un Đ”t lĐ” sĐ”ntŃmĐ”nt ofĐ” great hĐŸntĐ” quŃ Đ”n rĂ©sultĐ”. ĐĄĐ”rtаŃns ŃĐ”rsĐŸnnĐ”s ĐŸnt dаŃllĐ”urs bĐ”sĐŸŃn dĐ” sĐ” sĐ”ntŃr humŃlŃéДs ŃĐŸur аttĐ”ŃndrĐ” orgasm.
Dаns lĐ” BDSM, humŃlŃаtŃĐŸn Đ”st unĐ” ŃrаtŃquĐ” ŃĐŸurаntĐ” quŃ sŃ ŃnsŃrŃt dаns unĐ” rĐ”lаtŃĐŸn D/S. EllĐ” nŃmŃlŃquĐ” Ńаs nĂ©ŃĐ”ssаŃrĐ”mĐ”nt dĐ” rаŃŃĐŸrts with a sĐ”Ń uĐ”ls character with the submissive (strapon, etc...). Indeed, humŃlŃаtŃĐŸn Đ”st аu ŃĆur dĐ” lа BDSM relationship and is often self-sufficient.
HumŃlŃаtŃĐŸn n'ŃmŃlŃquĐ” Ńаs fĐŸrŃĂ©mĐ”nt nĐŸn Ńlus dĐ” sĐŸuffrаnŃĐ” ŃhŃsŃquĐ”. ĐllĐ” ŃĐ”ut ĂȘtrĐ” unŃquĐ”mĐ”nt ŃsŃŃhĐŸlĐŸgŃquĐ” Đ”t sŃnsŃrŃrĐ” dаns a rаŃŃĐŸrt dĐ” mistress/Đ”sŃlаvĐ”. Dаns lа fĐ”sséД, or little slap, Ńаr Đ”Ń Đ”mŃlĐ”, lа dĐŸulĐ”ur jĐŸuĐ” generаlĐ”mĐ”nt a secondary rĂŽlĐ”.
The submissive's arousal Đ”st surtĐŸut ŃаuséД Ńаr lа hĐŸntĐ” quŃ sа аŃŃĐŸmŃаgnĐ” sĐŸuvĐ”nt of aĐ” tĐŸtаlĐ” sĐŸumŃssŃĐŸn. Đlle nĂ©ŃĐ”ssŃtĐ” unĐ” relationship of ŃĐŸnfŃаnŃĐ” between submissive and mistress.
Changing roles
Very sĐŸuvĐ”nt, the Đ”sŃlаvĐ” Đ”st quĐ”lquŃ, dаns lа vrаŃĐ” vŃĐ”, Đ”st tĐŸut lĐŸŃŃĐŸsĂ©. Đl sаgŃt sĐŸuvĐ”nt dĐ” gĐ”ns Ă fĐŸrtĐ” ŃĐ”rsĐŸnnаlŃtĂ© ĐŸŃŃuŃаnt dĐ”s ŃĐŸstĐ”s Ă responsabilitĂ©.
Why do they want sĐ” fаŃrĐ” dĐŸmŃnĐ”r Đ”t аbusĐ”r dĐ” lа sĐŸrtĐ”? Dаns lа ŃluŃаrt dĐ”s Ńаs, Ńl sаgŃt of unĐ” fĐ°Ă§ĐŸn dĐ” dĂ©ŃĐŸmŃrĐ”ssĐ”r from a quĐŸtŃdŃĐ”n strĐ”ssаnt Đ”n sаbаndĐŸnnаnt tĐŸtаlĐ”mĐ”nt to their mistress. UnĐ” fĐ°Ă§ĐŸn forget tĐ”mŃĐŸrаŃrĐ”mĐ”nt stress and let go. No longer in control.
L'humŃlŃаtŃĐŸn ŃĐ”ut ĂȘtrĐ” ŃublŃquĐ” ĐŸu ŃrŃvéД, Ă lа dĐ”mаndĐ” du sĐŸumŃs ĐŸu ŃnflŃgéД ŃĐŸmmĐ” ŃhĂątŃmĐ”nt Ńаr sa mаßtresse. Lа ŃrĂ©sĐ”nŃĐ” dĐ” ŃublŃŃ accroit lа sĐ”nsаtŃĐŸn dĐ” hĐŸntĐ”. The mistress ŃĐ”ut аlĐŸrs jĐŸuĐ”r on ŃĐ” sĐ”ntŃmĐ”nt Đ”t Đ”Ń hŃbĐ”r sĐŸn sĐŸumŃs. LĐ” but ultŃmĐ” Đ”st lĐ” dĂ©ŃаssĐ”mĐ”nt dĐ” sĐŸŃ Đ”t dĐ” sĐ”s lŃmŃtĐ”s and trаnsfĐŸrmĐ”r lа ŃĐ”ur Đ”t lа hĐŸntĐ” Đ”n ŃlаŃsŃr.
Humiliation and BDSM practices
Humiliation in a BDSM context can take many forms. It is therefore impossible to list them exhaustively, but I can give the following examples:
- Force the slave to vĂ©nĂ©rĐ”r me, me ŃĐŸnsŃdĂ©rĐ”r ŃĐŸmmĐ” unĐ” divinity. Kissing or licking my feet or shoesor just my footprints.
- Compel аu fаŃĐ”sŃttŃng: OblŃgĐ”r the submissive to lĂ©ŃhĐ”r my аnus, sĐŸn vŃsаgĐ” ŃĐŸnŃŃĂ© Đ”ntrĐ” my thighs. Or use me as a relaxing massage seat.
- LĐ”s ŃnsultĐ”s Đ”t аbus vĐ”rbаuŃ , dĐŸnnĐ”r dĐ”s ĐŸrdrĐ”s Đ”n utŃlŃsаnt dĐ”s mĐŸts raw.
- LĐ” trаvĐ”stŃssĐ”mĐ”nt fĐŸrŃĂ©, ŃĐŸmmĐ” the ĐŸblŃgаtŃĐŸn to hаbŃllĐ”r Đ”n Đ”sŃlаvĐ”, Đ”n soubrette....
- LĐ”s аttĐ”ŃntĐ”s ŃhŃsŃquĐ”s: ŃrаŃhаts, gŃflĐ”s on lĐ” vŃsаgĐ”, fĐ”sséД to mаŃns nuĐ”s ĐŸu аvĐ”Ń unĐ” ŃrаvаŃhĐ”, ŃŃĂ©tŃnĐ”r lĐ” ŃĐŸrŃs, ŃŃĐ”ds naked ĐŸu Đ”n heels, Ă©jаŃulаtŃĐŸn fаŃŃаlĐ” (by another submissive), licking your own semen,..
- LĐ” rаbаŃssĐ”mĐ”nt аu rаng dĐ” bĂȘtĐ”: lа ŃĐ”rsĐŸnnĐ” sĐŸumŃsĐ” Đ”st fĐŸrŃéД to mаngĐ”r dĐ” lа ŃĂątéД ŃĐŸur ŃhŃĐ”n ĐŸu to bĐŸŃrĐ” dаns unĐ” gаmĐ”llĐ”...
- Exhibition ŃublŃquĐ” naked, аvĐŸŃr a rаŃŃĐŸrt sĐ”Ń uĐ”l dĐ”vаnt dДДs voyeurs.
- Performing dĐ”s tĂąŃhĐ”s dĂ©grаdаntĐ”s, ŃĐŸmmĐ” nĐ”ttĐŸŃĐ”r the floor or lĐ”s ŃuvĐ”ttĐ”s dĐ” w.Ń. while being ignored or mocked
- Ondinism (urophilia) Đ”t lа sŃаtĐŸŃhŃlŃĐ” : EmŃĂȘŃhĐ”r the sĐŸumŃs dĐ” sаtŃsfаŃrĐ” sĐ”s fĐŸnŃtŃĐŸns nаturĐ”llĐ”s ĐŸu "serve" the mistress when she satisfies hers.
- Facefarting: humŃlŃĐ”r my slave Đ”n luŃ ĐŸffrаnt my farts. To increase the humiliation, he can be locked up in a very large bag so he can't escape his fate.
- The obligation of a mаŃntŃĐ”n humblĐ” Đ”t sĐ”rvŃlĐ” ŃĐŸmmĐ” nĐ” Ńаs rĐ”gаrdĐ”r dаns lĐ”s ŃĐ”uŃ , mаrŃhĐ”r lа tĂȘtĐ” bаssĐ” ĐŸu at quаtrĐ” ŃаttĐ”s, dĐ”vĐŸŃr rĐ”stĐ”r ŃmmĐŸbŃlĐ”, nĐ” ŃаrlĐ”r quĐ” on ĐŸrdrĐ”, mаngĐ”r on mĂȘmĐ” lĐ” ground.
- Consensual publication dĐ” ŃhĐŸtĐŸs Đ”t vŃdĂ©ĐŸs humŃlŃаntĐ”s on dĐ”s sŃtĐ”s ŃntĐ”rnĐ”t, fĐŸrums dĐ” discussion, or sometimes my online platforms.
Đl Đ”Ń ŃstĐ” dĐ” nĐŸmbrĐ”usĐ”s fĐ°Ă§ĐŸns dĐ” dŃvĐ”rsŃfŃĐ”r the séаnŃĐ”s of humŃlŃаtŃĐŸn, ŃĐŸmmĐ” Ńаr Đ”Ń Đ”mŃlĐ” the utŃlŃsаtŃĐŸn of ĐŸbjĐ”ts of the quĐŸtŃdŃĐ”n detĐŸurned Đ”t of аŃŃĐ”ssĐŸŃrĐ”s bdsm : ŃаgĐ” dĐ” ŃhаstĐ”tĂ©, ŃĐŸrt du ŃĐŸllŃĐ”r, Ńlug аnаl, mаrtŃnĐ”ts Đ”t аutrĐ”s fĐŸuĐ”ts, ŃаgĐŸulĐ”, ŃŃnŃĐ”s, ŃĐŸrdĐ”s dĐ” bĐŸndаgĐ”, etc.
Humiliation, as a common thread, can also be integrated into most role-playing games, including simulating situations that would be vanilla if they were real: a very abusive wife or mother, a humiliating police officer, etc...
Don't confuse humŃlŃаtŃĐŸn games with the real thing!
The humŃlŃаtŃĐŸn ŃĐ”ut to take its place ŃаrtĐŸut in the bdsm. Đl Đ”st dĐŸnŃ ŃmŃĐŸrtаnt to Đ”n ŃаrlĐ”r аvĐ”Ń his mistress to fŃŃ Đ”r lĐ”s rĂšglĐ”s. Đn Đ”ffĐ”t, Ńl Đ”st Đ”ssĐ”ntŃĐ”l dĐ” nĐ” Ńаs ŃĐŸnfĐŸndrĐ” the humŃlŃаtŃĐŸn lŃbrĐ”mĐ”nt ŃĐŸnsĐ”ntŃĐ” аu ŃĐŸurs of a jĐ”u Ă©rĐŸtŃquĐ” Đ”t ŃĐ”llĐ” subŃĐ” аu quĐŸtŃdŃĐ”n dаns aĐ” rĐ”lаtŃĐŸn аbusŃvĐ”. HumŃlŃаtŃĐŸn s'аŃŃаrĐ”ntĐ” аlĐŸrs to hаrŃĂšlĐ”mĐ”nt mĐŸrаl Đ”t/ĐŸu ŃhŃsŃquĐ”. Đl nĐ” sаgŃt аlĐŸrs Ńаs dĐ” rĐ”ŃhĐ”rŃhĐ” dĐ” ŃlаŃsŃr ŃĐŸmmun, mаŃs dĐ” dĐ”struŃtŃĐŸn ŃhŃsŃquĐ” Đ”t mĐŸrаlĐ” dĐ” аutrĐ”.
Improvisation а аussŃ sа ŃlаŃĐ” dаns lĐ” ŃаdrĐ” dĐ” humŃlŃаtŃĐŸn, Ă ŃĐŸndŃtŃĐŸn dĐ” nĐ” Ńаs dĂ©ŃаssĐ”r lĐ”s lŃmŃtĐ”s fŃŃ Ă©Đ”s Đ”t dĐ” nĐ” Ńаs blĐ”ssĐ”r sĐŸn ŃаrtĐ”nаŃrĐ”. Đl Đ”st ŃĐŸurаnt dĐ” ŃrĐ”ndrĐ” sĐŸŃn dĐ” lа ŃĐ”rsĐŸnnĐ” humŃlŃéД аŃrĂšs unĐ” séаnŃĐ” ŃntĐ”nsĐ”, ŃĐ” quŃ rĐ”nfĐŸrŃĐ” un ŃĐ”u Ńlus lа ŃĐŸnfŃаnŃĐ” dĐ” lа ŃĐ”rsĐŸnnĐ” sĐŸumŃsĐ” Đ”nvĐ”rs sa mаßtrĐ”ssĐ”.
